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aelfie ([personal profile] aelfie) wrote2007-06-18 02:54 pm
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Saw this question on a bulliten board

"Freebirth," or unassisted childbirth, describes the practice of giving birth at home without medical help. Supporters call it natural and intimate; others reject it as dangerous and irresponsible. What do you think? Are there some circumstances in which it would be okay, and others in which it wouldn't?

After plowing through a 2-3 of 78 pages of responses. I thought I'd just put in my own response here.

Personally, I would LOVE to have a baby at home without anybody but Joe. BUT, I'm also a realist. I know things can go wrong very quickly and sometimes an ambulance just isn't quick enough. Is it frightening? Somewhat. At this point, I know what the process of birth is. But there's that primal knowlege that I think every woman has, that when we lay down to give birth, we may not get back up. So I give birth in a hospital. Now in a perfect world, I would be able to have that homebirth experience at the hospital. You know? Just leave the straps, and exams and doctors and the machine's that go "Ping!" outside and we'll call you if we need you.

But I think Liability insurance would never allow such a thing. And my insurance will not cover a birthing center where such an experience is possible.

But hey. If you feel up for it. Go for it!

[identity profile] aelfie.livejournal.com 2007-06-19 09:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think its a buzz kill. I think too many people for too many things focus on the experience and not the result. I know how I'd like a birth to go, but as long as everyone is healthy and alive at the end, I'm cool.

I think this also applies to bridezillas. I brought one bride to tears while she was freaking out about details when I said "Calm down, its just a wedding, as long as your married at the end of the day, who cares?"

moll.

(Anonymous) 2007-09-16 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Poor gal. Totally off subject, but I think the word, "bridezilla" is used much too liberally. I don't think having a certain vision is being a bridezilla. That's just kinda being a bride. The zilla part comes in when you're actually being a monster to everyone around you for not doing exactly what you want.

That was mean what you said to her. Mean, mean, mean. Shame on you!

*handsmack*